I understand about how tough it is to be a moderator...heck, I even volunteered to Rob about a year ago if they ever needed another one that I was available to help out.
I am a moderator on another forum now (a much smaller site with a lot less traffic) and thankfully we haven't had any issues yet. I am sure that we will though...in due time.
I consider Tom, Rob, Steve, Joe, Brian, Frank A.(And yes, even Gags

)along with Ken and a host of others my good friends. I have made lifelong friends BECAUSE of this site. You can't put a value on that.
Sometimes people say things in anger that I don't think they really mean...but they say it anyways...because they are mad. The one thing that all the issues that I've had with Holly has taught me was that 99% of the time it's just not worth getting angry.
Life is too short...
Thanks to the Clary's for a great site...thanks to the mods for the work they do...and thanks to all of the friends that I have made on this site